Embracing the Journey: The Beauty of Patience in Achieving Success
Good things take time
I recently took on two new one-to-one clients (this caused a happy dance for me, because I love both of them and what they stand for so much already.)
When I asked them if they had any reservations, both of them expressed concerns about spending money on themselves (totally understandable, I always am the same), and perhaps more interestingly concerned that I would be pushing them to spend more time than they wanted to on their business.
It made me realise that more and more I am attracting women just like me-who want to feel like they’re less stuck, and that their business is making them happy alongside a deeply for filling and varied life.
The truth is, there is no rush. You won’t get a gold star for being the first to think of something, because there really aren’t any new ideas any more. If you’re feeling a bit panicked about time, here are five things for you that might help.
It’s ok to work intuitively - my clients typically like to flit like dragonflies from one idea to another, sucking and seeing what tastes good. I then help them with planning (small, medium, long term), vision and day to day accountability. This way they stay true to their creative energy, and I help them make progress more quickly. But, working intuitively is a lovely way to be, particularly if you’re running a business - why else did you start, after all, if not because you wanted control and flexibility?
What systems do you have in place? Are there any tools you need to help you? Social media scheduling tools, batch planning tasks – they can be game-changers when it comes to managing your time effectively. Let's explore how these tools can work for you.
Work-life balance: How often do you take a break from work? Whether that’s a decent lunch break, a 20 minute walk or an impromptu Air B n B for a weekend in Dorset? Remember, it's okay to step away from work. It can boost your productivity and overall well-being.
Reflection: Take a moment to reflect on how you spend your work hours. Is it meant to be flexible, but you’re actually doing 10 hour days (answering emails minutes before the school run, working during school without a break, hopping on your laptop as soon as the kids are in bed?) Obviously it’s fine if you do that, but if it’s happening all the time, is that how you want to be spending your days? You may need to reflect on points 1 and 2.
Life beyond work: The days are long and the years are short, but don’t make your mission in life to be the person who worked the hardest - I doubt that’s what you want on your grave stone. I love work and get antsy without it, but it’s not the only part of you. Your friends, family and so much more matters too.
In a world that often races against the clock, it's vital to remember that life's most meaningful achievements and profound joys are rarely rushed. The path to success is not a sprint but a journey where every step counts. Embrace the process, cultivate balance, and celebrate the small victories along the way. True success is found in the harmony of a life well-lived, one that enriches not only your career but your very essence. So, take your time, savour the moments, and watch as your unique journey unfolds into a masterpiece of fulfilment and purpose.
How can you slow down, and take a moment to savour the journey? Come and chat to me in the comments section below.
With love,
Laura x
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